TWO STRATEGIES YOU NEED TO COMMUNICATE EFFECTIVELY

  It’s Communication month! Last week we focused on your unconscious communication and how that affects you (and I gave you a one-week challenge – if you haven’t checked out the Align Your Mind Challenge yet, what are you waiting for)?! Now it’s time to look at...

It’s Time to Up Your Communication Game

 If we’re going to talk about communication, I want to make sure we’re on the same page first. At its very core, communication refers to receiving information. If you’re the sender of this information (i.e., the one talking) you want whatever you’re saying...

How to Stop Being Distracted

 True story of me leaving my house for work:I grab my keys, phone, bag and thermos. I lock all the locks and walk outside to get to my car. As my feet hit the concrete, I’m aware that something is off; that something doesn’t seem right. I walk another few...

Four Ways to Be More Self-Aware

 People who are self-aware are more fulfilled, have stronger relationships, are more creative, more confident and better communicators. They’re less likely to lie, cheat or steal and they do better at work and are more promotable (all according to the...

How to Make Mindfulness a Consistent Habit

 You’re out with your partner running errands. The day has been going fine but there’s a lot to do and your mind is consumed “with all the things.”You’re now at Home Depot together picking out a security system for the house. You’ve talked about this some...

Being Happy for Your Partner Equals a Happy Marriage

 When you keep score you set yourself up to be competing with your partner. By default, this means you won’t be happy when your partner shares good news. How can you be? If you’re competing and they do well, it means you’re losing! So, instead of being...

Relationships Aren’t Fair

 Nothing in a relationship is “fair” or equal if you look at it from a time perspective. The problem with looking at your relationship from a time perspective is that it doesn’t take into account the value of what’s being done, irrespective of time. I’m...

Competing Stops You from Listening and Connecting

 Tell me if this scenario sounds familiar: You’ve set up the car pools for the kids for the week, you’ve shopped for and made dinner (and this was difficult because of little Jimmy’s recently diagnosed gluten allergy), you’ve emailed back and forth all day...

The Real Problem in Your Relationship

 There’s a lot going on in today’s relationships: commutes, work, deadlines, keeping the house together, fitting in time with friends, self-care, and just the general maintenance of life leaves many couples feeling exhausted at the end of the day. When you...

How the Law of Attraction Works in Your Relationship

 Today you’re going to learn how the law of attraction really works in your relationship. To get us there, we’re going to need to take a small (I promise) detour down a quantum science road, but you’ve got to know about quantum to understand that the law...