In the last three decades I’ve learned a lot about what works and what doesn’t when it comes to happy, connected relationships and effective communication. Being the 200th episode of the podcast, I thought it would be the perfect time to recap my top ten tools for effective communication in every relationship. These tools work for all relationships although most people are interested in how to communicate better with their partner, so I’ll default to that relationship here, but please remember that these are the tools you want to use at work, with your parents, siblings and friends too.
Resources
How 5 Minutes of Mindfulness a Day Can Make Your Relationship Great
How to Make Mindfulness a Habit
Two Strategies You Need to Communicate Effectively
How to Set Intention in 18 Seconds (aka The 18-Second Shift)
8 Rules for Giving Great Feedback
How to Listen without Getting Defensive or Hurt
My Partner Doesn’t Listen to Me
Keeping Score in Your Relationship Makes You Lose
Bad Questions Are Ruining your Relationship
The 5-Step Process to Making Decisions and Getting Out of Analysis Paralysis
Change Your Language, Change Your Relationship
Developing Empathy in Relationships is the Key to Connection and Communication