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CREATE CONNECTION AND JOY THIS HOLIDAY SEASON BY DOING THIS ONE THING

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There’s nothing like getting together with your parents and siblings over the holidays… and then realizing you’re plotting their murders halfway through dinner. Being with family members, especially around the holidays, can be tough for a lot of reasons, but the main reason you’re unhappy has to do with your expectations. Today I’m teaching you the three big problems with your expectations and the one tool you can use to create connection and joy this holiday season.

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Research

Kelley JM. Lumping and Splitting: Toward a Taxonomy of Placebo and Related Effects. Int Rev Neurobiol. 2018;139:29-48. doi: 10.1016/bs.irn.2018.07.011. Epub 2018 Aug 2. PMID: 30146051.

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