Relationships
Made Easy
Podcast
What’s the secret to a happy life? The research says it’s your relationships! But how do you create the connection, joy and ease you crave? The secret is to think about your relationships in a whole new way.
Armed with humor, a ton of research and over 30 years of hands-on experience Dr. Abby Medcalf will teach you simple, actionable tools and strategies that you can use today to make all your relationships the best they’ve ever been (including the one with yourself)!
Featured in CNBC’s “Top Ten Podcasts We Need In Our Life Right Now.”
Learn to Hold Your Boundaries with Healthy Selfishness (Podcast Episode 265)
You’ve tried to draw a boundary with your partner, boss or best friend, but they call you selfish, self-absorbed or even narcissistic! How could dare you prioritize yourself over what they want? In my new book, Boundaries Made Easy (which is dropping in just a couple...
What to Do if Your Partner is Friends with Past Partners or Hookups (Podcast Episode 264)
Your current partner is friends with one or more of their past partners or hookups, and you don’t like it. You’ve told them you’re uncomfortable, but they say they’re just friends and you’re overreacting. Does it mean you have to break up? Should you push the issue or...
How to Keep Your Boundaries Around the Holidays (Podcast Episode 263)
How do you not let your family drive you crazy this holiday season? Boundaries. How can you find peace even though there’s so much going on during November and December? Boundaries. How can you enter the new year feeling refreshed and energized? Boundaries once again!...
How Do You Know When a Relationship Is Over? (Podcast Episode 262)
Have you been thinking it’s time to call it quits in your relationship, but maybe you’re wondering if you’re quitting too soon or wanting to leave for the wrong reasons? It can be hard to know when a relationship “should be” over. Today I’ll be sharing the top five...
What You Need to Know About Defense Mechanisms (Podcast Episode 261)
Defense mechanisms are your brain’s (mostly unconscious) way of avoiding conflict, anxiety or upset. Although they get a bad rap, defense mechanisms are a necessary part of your psychology, and some are even considered healthy! Today, you’ll gain some self-awareness...
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Warning: will change your life
I have been listening to this podcast for over a year, and I am grateful for it daily. It has transformed my interactions with others and with myself. Dr. Abby lovingly calls attention to the patterns that we build up in our heads without realizing, and then practically shows …
you how to work through them in every single episode. She is incredibly wise, passionate, and kind—her authenticity is refreshing. If you’re unsure where to begin, start with the “204-Step-by-Step Guide to Starting Your Day Right”, and “003-Thinking Your Day has 24 Hours is Wrong” for time management and self-care. I recommend “124-How to Listen Without Getting Defensive or Hurt” and “252-Instead of Date Nights, Work on Micro-Connections” for relationship work. You can’t go wrong wherever you start, this podcast is a gift.
-Bballgrl4ever via Apple Podcasts ·United States of America
I can’t stop listening
she’s absolutely incredible, I’ve really enjoyed listening and in the past 3 days have learned so much about myself and looking at things I’m doing and saying differently to help myself and my relationship. 10/10 recommend
-chloochlo via Apple Podcasts ·Canada
Amazing Podcast!!
Love Abby’s podcast, she is so relatable and explains everything so well that it’s easy to understand. She covers such a wide range of topics and always does it with love. I would encourage you to sign up to her email mailing list to receive your love letters from Abby. Keep up the amazing work! Highly recommend 😊
-Tennis Fan 11346 via Apple Podcasts ·Australia
Life saver
Dr Abby has helped me in all my relationships! I listen to her everyday on my way to work. I am learning so much about setting boundaries and gaining confidence. She also has helped my marriage and my parenting. I share her wisdom with everyone!
–Provence via Apple Podcasts ·United States of America
Can’t say enough good things
I can’t say enough good things about Abby’s podcast. I came across her podcast when I was in a time of need of learning how to cope with my depression and stress. Now I stay because there is so much I’m learning from her episodes. She is relatable, funny and always leaves you with good tips and tricks to use. If you are unable to see a therapist or need help sorting out some troubles or just want to learn about yourself I highly recommend listening. Also, her episodes are ad free which is also a treat! Thank you Abby for having this resource
-Kristin Nagle via Apple Podcasts ·United States of America
You’ve helped me become a better man for my relationship
All of Dr. Abby’s advice and resources are so very helpful and have brought me more happiness for myself and in my relationship. I look forward to every episode. Thank you so much!
Comprehensive, engaging, helpful… (& humorous!)
Listened to many dozens of episodes now and I really appreciate Abby’s thorough approach to relationships. Find the examples really user friendly & realistic! Have improved my relationship with myself and significant others by combining these methods with my own mindfulness practice. Sign up to the weekly love letter if you like her style, I enjoy listening, glad to be here!
–MimiVintage via Apple Podcasts ·Great Britain
A beautiful gift
Thank you Abby. This podcast changed me and changed my life. I am a better friend and partner thanks to the insights and tools Abby offers. For free. I am so grateful for this podcast, for Abby!
–Ahmazeblaze via Apple Podcasts ·United States of America
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