There’s one tool that will improve your relationships. It’s not hard to do and it creates emotional connection and trust in seconds. It’s all about something called “bids.” Today I’m going to teach you what they are (your partner, kids and friends have been making bids and you don’t even realize it) and my top tips for show to use them to create a deeper connection in any relationship.
Resources
Complaining is As Bad for You As Bacon (And Just As Satisfying)
Building Trust in Your Relationship
How to Stop Being Self-Conscious in All Your Relationships
How to Listen without Getting Defensive or Hurt
How 5 Minutes of Mindfulness a Day Can Make Your Relationship Great
How to Make Mindfulness a Habit
Research
Ellie Lisitsa, “An Introduction to Emotional Bids and Trust,” The Gottman Institute, n.d.