Growing up in a dysfunctional or traumatic home can shape every part of your life: your sense of self, your relationships, your ability to trust, and even how you handle stress. If you’ve ever wondered why you struggle with setting boundaries, attract emotionally unavailable partners, or feel like you have to earn love, the roots lie in your upbringing. But here’s the thing: your past doesn’t have to equal your future. It equals your present. What you do now is what predicts your future. Understanding what happened, how it affects you, and how to move forward is the key to breaking free from dysfunctional patterns and creating a life filled with real connection, joy, and ease. Today, you’ll learn signs to look out for and my five steps to heal and move forward.
Resources and Research for How to Move Past the Dysfunction or Trauma of Unhealthy Parenting
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Boundaries Made Easy: Your Roadmap to Connection, Ease and Joy by Dr. Abby Medcalf
How to Set Boundaries at Work and Avoid Burnout
How Your Attachment Style Affects Your Personal Relationships
How Do You Know If You’re Making the Right Decision Following Your Gut
Emotional Healing Techniques: Mastering Mindfulness and Self-Acceptance/Compassion
Three Holistic Approaches to Your Mental Health
How Changing Your Breathing and Posture Can Change Your Life
Five Ways to Cultivate Self-Love
Is Self-Compassion the Secret to a Happy Relationship?
Learn to Hold Your Boundaries with Healthy Selfishness
The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma by Bessel van der Kolk M.D.