Love Talk

 

52 lessons to create connection, joy and ease in your relationship, even if your partner won’t do a thing

INSTRUCTIONS FOR DECK:

I’ve distilled over 35 years of my client’s successful strategies into this deck of cards. Here you’ll find 52 lessons, including tips and philosophies, to improve connection and shift towards love. This results in more effective communication, joy and ease with your partner. Practice these tools and new beliefs and you’ll see that big shifts can come in small, powerful doses.

There are many ways you can use this deck, but here are my suggestions:

• • Think of the deck as a year-long course. Start with card #1 and focus on the concept or skill consistently for a week. Then, each week, go to the next card and keep building your communication and connection practice.

• • Think of the deck as a daily course. Start with card #1 and focus on the concept or skill consistently for that day. Carry the card in your bag or place it prominently on your desk or refrigerator, anything to keep the concept front and center all day. Then, each day, go to the next card and keep building your communication and connection practice.

• • Close your eyes and shuffle the deck randomly as you think about your partner. What do you want to see more of? How would you like to feel in your relationship? Now lay the cards out, face down, in a fan and pick whatever card speaks to you. Whatever card you choose is where you want to put your focus that day. Each day (or whenever the mood strikes you), replace the card in the deck and go through the same process. You might pick the same card from the deck multiple times (which is amazing when you think about it) but, whatever it is, that’s your internal guidance system letting you know that this is the focus for this day or week.

 

Use the resources below to dive deeper into each lesson.