Being Happy for Your Partner Equals a Happy Marriage

Being Happy for Your Partner Equals a Happy Marriage

 When you keep score you set yourself up to be competing with your partner. By default, this means you won’t be happy when your partner shares good news. How can you be? If you’re competing and they do well, it means you’re losing! So, instead of being happy that your...
063 Being Happy for Your Partner = A Happy Relationship

063 Being Happy for Your Partner = A Happy Relationship

When you keep score you set yourself up to be competing with your partner. By default, this means you won’t be happy when your partner shares good news. How can you be? If you’re competing and they do well, it means you’re losing! So, instead of being happy that your...
Relationships Aren’t Fair

Relationships Aren’t Fair

 Nothing in a relationship is “fair” or equal if you look at it from a time perspective. The problem with looking at your relationship from a time perspective is that it doesn’t take into account the value of what’s being done, irrespective of time. I’m going to teach...
062 Relationships Aren’t Fair 

062 Relationships Aren’t Fair 

Nothing in a relationship is “fair” or equal if you look at it from a time perspective. The problem with looking at your relationship from a time perspective is that it doesn’t take into account the value of what’s being done, irrespective of time. I’m going to teach...
061 Keeping Score Stops You From Connecting

061 Keeping Score Stops You From Connecting

Today’s podcast is for you if this scenario sounds familiar: You’ve set up the car pools for the kids for the week, you’ve shopped for and made dinner (and this was difficult because of little Jimmy’s recently diagnosed gluten allergy), you’ve emailed back and forth...